#7 Conclusion of "why" pray?
We have started things here with some “why should we pray”
chapters and we could conclude that topic with a few recaps and a few new
reasons. First, you and I are motivated by the fact that prayer works. I
started with the Jenny story as a good example. When you ask and God answers
that is a great motivator.
Some other reasons to pray are because we were told to in
the Bible and we have great examples in that book that we will look at later.
Some models from Daniel, Paul and some from Jesus Himself.
The Bible also says to devote
yourselves to prayer or in another translation it says “Continue earnestly in
prayer, being vigilant in it.” Col 4:2. We also pray because Jesus used
terminology like “When” you pray, not “if” you pray. And then there are those
100 verses in the Bible that teach us all about prayer.
Let me give just a few: “Be anxious for nothing but in
everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be
made known to God; and the peace of God which surpasses all understanding, will
guard your hearts and mind [your thoughts] through Christ Jesus.” That was a
lot. We could write an entire book on those words alone. For now, allow me to
say “anxious” as in anxiety? A quick check from a reputable website writes that
40 million Americans suffer with anxiety. I could start quoting statistics
about how much we spend on antianxiety medications and all kinds of facts here.
And peace? Isn’t peace the number one thing we are chasing? I believe drug
abusers are and so are many other people are trying everything from Yoga to
cruises.
Then we have I Thessalonians 5:17, a very famous verse on
prayer, “pray without ceasing.” Let’s talk about that quickly. It is one of the
methods of prayer that I will cover in another chapter and it can mean a few
different things. It can mean that you literally never stop praying no matter
what you are doing or perhaps Paul was trying to say in my own words, “keep it
up, keep going, and do not stop. Pray, pray, pray.” I lean toward that one. I
don’t necessarily pray while I clean the cat litter. I could, but I think that
the Creator of the Universe deserves a little more respect than that and I have
24 hours every day. While I’m scooping through the sand looking for Kitty’s
droppings may not be the best moment to pray. Again, it all overlaps. Unceasing
prayer is a type of prayer but it also falls under “when” to pray.
Ephesians 6:10-20 is a great teaching on prayer. This is the
famous “Armor of God” teaching from Paul but we won’t get into all that right
now. Let’s only look at verse 18 “Praying always with all prayer.” Goes nicely
with our “pray without ceasing verse” doesn’t it?
My personal favorite is when Jesus teaches us about the
persistent widow that we talked about already with the Jenny story but look at
how that teaching is introduced, [Jesus] “…spoke a parable to them, that men
always ought to pray and not lose heart…” Wow, I love that so much.
But before you start to devote yourself to prayer you need
to know “who” you are praying to. Read your Bible so that you will KNOW Him.
That’s the only way. I can tell you all about the Lord and write you a Bible
study and tell you which verses to go read but the best way is to do this on
your own, with YOUR Bible and your time. If you want to become “cult proof”
then please read and understand Genesis, the four gospels and the book of
Romans. Add to that a dedication to knowing what Galatians, Ephesians, Philippians
and Colossians say. That’s the beginning. I’m a huge believer in every kind of
Bible reading but I firmly believe that every Christian should read the entire
Bible from front to back every year of their lives. You really do need to know
it, all of it. After you feel you have reached a certain point of familiarity
then you can explore all the others ways to read it. Slow and meditatively or
involve yourself in deep and difficult studies while learning some Greek and
some Hebrew so that YOU will not be at the mercy of the translations. You can
learn to read the Bible in its original languages. Sometimes it is soothing to
the soul to just read passages at random but when you are new to the faith it
is vital to get the basics correct.
Why is this important? Because you can’t just make up a Jesus
and pray to that made up Jesus and expect your prayers to be answered or expect
a good result in the afterlife. If you really know the God of the Bible you
will not make up features of God that are not true or take on a fake view of
Him. Do not add to the Bible. Don’t
make it harder than He taught us. Don’t make up rituals and rules that the
Bible doesn’t teach you. What do I always say? “Let’s go with what God clearly
taught us and do those things and not guess about what He did not say.”
The Bible will teach you precisely everything you need to
know if you will read it faithfully. Do NOT take other people’s word for it.
That is how cults begin (many times) and there are a lot of cults and false
teachers out there.
God said that in the Old Testament (many, many times) and
Jesus said it in the New Testament. In Matthew chapter 24 Jesus’ disciples
asked Him three questions: “Tell us, when will these things be? And what will be the sign of Your coming, and
of the end of the age?” This was a private conversation involving only Jesus
and His very closest followers. The very first thing He said when He answered
was, “Take heed that no one deceives
you. For many will come in My name, saying, ‘I am the Christ,’
and will deceive many.” And He went
on to detail how things will end here on earth for the rest of the chapter. (Side
note: It is a hugely important chapter about the end and probably the best
starting place for that entire topic.) As He continued to teach on this He says
again in the 24th verse, “24For false christs and false
prophets will rise and show great signs and wonders to deceive, if possible,
even the elect. See, I have told you beforehand.”
Or for now, while you are learning, keep it simple. Consider
this, the early believers met by the river and prayed and if you only knew one
verse of the bible a good one would be, “…seek first the kingdom of God and His
righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you. Therefore
do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things.
Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.” Jesus taught us that in
Matthew 6:33 and we usually refer to this in the short version of, “Seek ye
first the Kingdom of God.” Sometimes it helps just to keep repeating that to
yourself.
Isaiah is the best book to read God’s word in the first
person. He is pouring out His heart in the book. It’s large and it’s
complicated and very thorough so read it more than once, study it and it will
help you to know our Creator’s heart and a lot about what is going to happen in
the future that is important too.
I believe the first example of who God is can be found right
at the beginning of Genesis. You can learn a lot about His power in a very
short amount of time. I also think that you can see the first example of prayer
right there too. It appears from Genesis 3:8 that Adam, the first man, used to
walk with God in the cool of the evening. I’ll take a night of that myself.
Wouldn’t that be fantastic? I would love that. Adam had it made as far as
fellowship with God goes. But then Adam sinned with his wife’s assistance and
mankind fell. The two of them were cast out of the Garden of Eden and things
changed. Curses were given to people from God Himself. But I still think that
is our first glimpse of praying in the Bible. Like a friendship, walking around
just talking, spending time together. The biggest difference is the Almighty
God is in conversation with you and He is just that, Almighty, very
powerful…not quite the same as having a small talk with your neighbor. There
needs to be some reference as to who He is.
The verse, “Seek ye first the Kingdom of God…” is not
exactly a teaching on prayer, I will concede that. But it gives us such a good
backdrop to how we live, how often we pray and what our priorities are. It struck
me the first time I ever read it which must have been within days of becoming a
Christian. At that time, 1982, having a T-shirt made for you with what you
wanted said on it was very popular. You could find a store like that in every
little shopping center. I ran out and bought a plain white one with light blue
raglan sleeves. It was blank on the front and the back I had the store owner
write, “Seek Ye First” in black letters. The idea was that people would stop me
and ask what it meant and then I would tell them the rest of the verse.
I did not just wear a shirt though. I took that verse to
heart and lived it. And we need the beginning of it right now in order for my
next story to make better sense.
Jesus is speaking, “Therefore do not worry, saying, ‘What
shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For
after all these things the Gentiles seek. For your heavenly Father knows that
you need all these things. But seek first the kingdom of God
and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.”
Very clear, isn’t it? Seek God first and because He knows
what you need He will add these other things to your life, such as food and
clothing. You do not have to put pursuing anything else ahead of God. It is the
opposite of how many of us live before we are believing Christians and
sometimes after. There are things we seek, that we want, like jobs and good
apartments, a family and all the stuff the department store sells. But I
decided it was literally true so you think I’m going to tell you I gave away
all my stuff, right? No, I gave away a person. Within one, two or perhaps three
days (of becoming a Christian) I called my boyfriend on the phone. I broke up
with him on that call. I have no recollection of what he said but I know what I
said as if it had happened yesterday, “Hi. I became a Christian and even though
I don’t know what all that means I do know one thing. I don’t think that Jesus
is going to want us doing what we have been doing and I don’t think I can take
the temptation and I am not going to be the same. I can tell I am going to be
different. So, I can’t be around you.”
That breakup worked with very few glitches. He did try to
contact me by leaving notes on my car and calling sometimes. You also need to
know that I moved from where I lived right away even though he and I did not
live together at the time. We had a rental together earlier but when I accepted
Jesus and started to follow Him I had a little one bedroom apartment and he did
not live with me.
However you need just a little bit more background. I’ll be
brief. I had a fulltime job in downtown Seattle but could not afford to rent a
place in Seattle so I lived outside of the city by the airport (not a nice
neighborhood). I had a horrible, cheap car with a big V 8 engine and one child
in daycare. So picture this, the first
week I am a Christian I go into work where I’ve been for almost two years
and my boss said he loved me and it broke his heart but he could not afford my
wages anymore. He could only have me work six hours a day instead of eight. I
told him, “But my rent will not go down, and neither will my daycare bill so I
won’t be able to work here.” I could not even afford to park in downtown
Seattle. I drove my “beater” car to a bus station and took public
transportation into the city five days a week.
I caught the bus home, in the rain, and picked up my car and
knocked on the door of the lady who was running a home daycare. At the door, on
the same day as my boss’ bad news she announced that she was no longer going to
be a daycare owner. She was returning to her regular job. I take my toddler
(whose father had committed suicide earlier that year but he and I had been
apart for her entire life—two years) and I put her in her car seat. We drove
about 2 miles and my engine threw a rod I think they called it, so it was totaled,
meaning that fixing it was not worth the money because its overall worth was
less than two hundred dollars.
I do not even remember how I got home. Maybe I carried my
two year old the rest of the way, I just don’t know.
I was pretty helpless but not at all despondent because I
was “seeking first” God, the Almighty, the creator who saved me from my sins by
sending His only son here to earth to die for me. So that I would never have to
go into the lake of fire myself and I could have Jesus’ righteousness instead
of my own…and that was a good thing because I KNEW I had no righteousness at
all. I was okay because a God that powerful must have a plan for me. That is
how the first week of Christianity played out for me. Suddenly, I did not have
a boyfriend, a proper job, a daycare or a car.
Obviously, the Lord provided a place to live and I got a
different fulltime job and a different daycare and my boyfriend moved hundreds
of miles away because he said he would not be able to leave me alone unless he
left.
He was gone for five years. On occasion I would pray that he
would become a Christian too for his own sake. I did not expect to ever see him
again. I prayed about 20 or 25 times for him over the five years. I prayed that
no matter where he went someone would give him the gospel. I prayed that
everywhere he turned another person would give him the gospel.
I was single for those five years except for one brief time
that I won’t go into now because it doesn’t serve any purpose to do that. But,
when I woke up one morning in early 1987 I said to myself and to God quite
emphatically and frequently that I wanted to get married that year. I asked Him
repeatedly to pick out the right husband for me. I asked God to help me change
so that I could be a good wife and boy oh boy did I ever get persistent about
it.
Men started lining up around the block. All of sudden
everyone wanted to marry me. There were all kinds of men asking but it felt a
lot like the time Adam named every animal and none of them proved to be a
proper mate for him. While my social calendar was going crazy the phone rang
one night and my old boyfriend was on the line asking to come over. I remember
that like it was just yesterday too. I didn’t know what to say at all. In a
spilt second I was going back and forth between yes and no in my mind and then
I thought, why not? I gave him my address and he came right over.
He asked me what I was up to and I let him know, I am
getting married, I don’t know who to but I am getting married this year. He
told me that he had got on a plane with nothing with him and his plan was to
come to Seattle and try to find me. I have no idea how he did get my phone
number, but he did.
Was he a Christian though? For five years I had been reading
in my Bible that a Christian should not marry a non-Christian so he was out of
the question if he wasn’t a believer.
He told me his conversion story and it goes like this. He
said, “Everywhere I went people told me the gospel. I would join a basketball
team only to find out they were Christians and they would tell me the gospel.”
He went on and on and said everywhere he turned people were popping up telling
him about salvation through Jesus Christ. It happened at work, it happened at
soccer teams, it just kept happening.
That is not the only time I’ve heard my own words, said
alone in prayer, repeated to me verbatim. No, that has happened many times now.
We married late that summer and it’s been happily ever after
since then. He and I have had fights and gone through some major issues at
times but everyone knows we are a happy couple and the Lord did add unto me all
the things I needed.
I tell that story sometimes to ladies who are living with
their boyfriends and trying to live the Christian life at the same time. I can’t
promise them anything but I can tell them that my sacrifice to break up with my
boyfriend changed my whole life. I should say it was God who changed my whole
life and he prospered us and I am not sure there is another man anywhere that
loves his wife as much as my husband loves me. I could write a whole book on
all of his sacrifices for me and things he has given me. He is the most
selfless man I’ve ever met and I thank God that out of all the men he could
have paired me with he chose the husband that I have. I am blessed and God
answers prayers.
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